Middle School students, in general, tend to struggle with how to be responsible students. They want good grades but seem to struggle with the responsibility part that makes those grades happen. So I set out on a mission to teach responsibility to my middle school students.
1. The first step in teaching responsibility is to set the stage with expectations and small tasks.
At the beginning of this year, I organized my students into teams and began learning about the "Traits of Excellence" such as unselfishness, dependability, integrity, knowledge, tact, judgment, and endurance. These traits were the things that would help us be most successful in school. I taught each trait separately with lots of discussions so that we were all on the same page.
Students earned points for their teams every time they demonstrated one of these traits in the classroom. It worked very well for most things IN my class - but out of my class, well that's been a different story and the reason for this post.
2. The next step in teaching responsibility to middle school students is to review each person's role in the classroom.
Teaching the "Traits of Excellence" started us down the road of responsibility but it has become obvious that students need a bit more support in using these traits outside of my classroom.
So I began by asking the students what they believe their job is at school. I received responses like these:
-Do my work
-Pay attention
-Give my best effort
Then I asked them to list what they believe my role is. They said things like:
-Teach us what we need to know
-Be helpful
I wrote all these down on a poster that I keep in my room because afterward, we had a big discussion about how these jobs don't stop once we walk out the door. In middle school, these jobs (and traits) need to go with us everywhere we go. When we know we have homework, we need to follow through at home. Or when we don't have homework but need to study, we need to follow through at home.
The key here is the follow-through.